Hello Ann, I am a 12 year old girl from Dublin and I have a boyfriend of 16, the problem is that lately he has been pressuring me into sex and I find it uncomfortable.......he told me that if I did not agree that he would break up with me and I don't want this to happen..... Please help Ann as it would mean a lot to me, Thanks.

Dear confused, your boyfriend sounds like a horrible person. It is totally unfair of him to expect a 12 year old to have sex. Does he realise that it is also illegal? Tell him that you will have sex when you are ready, say about 5 or 6 years. If he really loves you he will wait. In response to him threatening to break it off if you do not give him sex then you should tell him that if he does not buy you a Ferrari for your next birthday you will chop his penis off with a rusty bread knife while he is sleeping.