Dear Ann, I am 13 and my name is Paddy. My girlfriend Naula wants to have sex but I don't want to so what should I do? Thanks Ann.

Dear Paddy, try to tell Nuala that she is being unfair asking a 13 year old to have sex. You are too young. When two people have sex it should be out of love and is also an incredible responsibility. If that does not work just tell her that you are not interested in sex. Explain that you love her personality and offer to make love with your minds.